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Leaving the bitterness and anger behind is not easy !

Writer: Avra PoelmannAvra Poelmann

Hello beautiful Souls , my message today is about living without resentment and bitterness.

It is a reality that people hurt people whether intentionally or not. One of things I am so grateful for is my ability to allow acceptance and love to all who cross my path.

I will continue to learn lessons and find growth in every single event and circumstance I find myself in. I have learned that hate, anger , resentment and bitterness are only hurting ourselves .

It’s been a hard and long journey and yet also an incredible experience to not take on the emotional clutter or disrespect from others. It is so easy to tell people not to take toxic or unwanted behaviour from others and not feel ! We are human and if we don’t feel we can’t find love !

Is it a space of cutting off our emotions to disengage and say “I am out of here, this doesn’t serve me well?” Sure if that is how it gives you boundaries and respect for yourself then that’s the way to do it!

For me it’s about deep and meaningful relationships and loving myself first. I prefer to make a friendship out of a failed relationship and see the reason I was placed in that space in the first place. Surely an interconnectivity and friendship is always a place to want to aspire to? If it’s possible to do so I will chose friendship first!

However you deal with your hurts and trials it is good to try target a space of friendship and honesty with those who have not necessarily been intentionally wanting to hurt you .

For me it’s about good communication and friendship being special always. Not always easy to do this . It takes a huge amount of emotional maturity and learning to not just survive … to thrive !

Today I ask you to reach out to those that you feel can always still be a friend. Friendship is a special space to nurture. Send someone a message, a joke or a hello, simply because you are mindful or the space they have in your heart. Maybe they will respond and reach out to you too. No one will do what you do ! That’s your super power! Love and light always 😍


 
 
 

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