Hello Beautiful Souls. . My message today is about respecting other people's needs too and your own!
We are all so caught up in our own opinions, judgements and ideas. When we learn to be more accepting and open minded then we can experience growth. We need to realize that others can have their needs too. They may not be our idea or opinion. Just because we don't agree with someone else, does not mean they are wrong. Every person has their unique requirement and way of life.
When we take the time to first understand someone else's needs we may see things from a different perspective. We may need to just walk in someone else's shoes to really understand them. We can become so stuck in our ways that we don't allow for change, growth or development. Very often we make a judgement call on someone without knowing the truth and the facts.
Give someone the benefit of the doubt. Always try to understand how someone else may think or feel...ask them what their thoughts are. Life is not centered all about our own lives. Learning to have an open mind with compassion and empathy are such wonderful ways to make us more loving and kind to others. We have to drop the Ego, we are no better than anyone else.
We have to have the decency to honour others too. If we are so busy being right we can never make space to be wrong. We are not here to decide how others live their lives and can choose what we feel comfortable with. If others do not accept your choices in life or you, theirs then we need to find a non judgmental space of allowing. Sometimes we simply need to ask if their choices are serving us or affecting us in anyway. If it is only an emotional trigger be sure you don’t make the judgement of others before you are sure!
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