Hello beautiful Souls. My message today is about finding the strength you need to allow yourself to feel loved.
Now that sounds like an oxymoron doesn’t it? When we spend so much time being strong and confident it can also wear us down. It not easy to always be the strong person, the one who picks up after themselves over and over again.
When we reach a stage in life that we feel “I have coped with so much it’s starting to become harder!” This is when we need to allow ourselves a space to decide who we want in our lives, what we can change and begin a relationship with ourselves of honesty and kindness?We can’t continue to simply pour out and give without any regard for giving too much.
To help us with this transformation we have to allow others in and allow them to help us and support us instead of pretending to be ok ! It alright to stop process and say “ Wow! I HAVE gone through a LOT” and now can just allow ourselves to witness what we have achieved! We have to become honest with our friends too and decide if we value friendship then we also value support and respect.
When we are always the one reaching out and giving it is not the receiving we need. It’s more the comfort and love we seek to make us feel it is ok. We will never need others to fulfill the voids or the mistakes we need to correct and navigate. It’s simply just great to know that others care about you to.
Effort is a directreflection of interest and we all need to make an effort for others too! Without actions nothing changes and nothing happens. To all those who feel a little depleted “you are enough, you are beautiful and you are loved ❤️
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