Healing: Just because you carry it well, doesn't mean it isn't heavy

Hello beautuful Souls. My message today is about the reality of the process of healing.

True healing is an unglamorous process of living into the long lengths of pain and experiencing endurance and suffering.

It is forging forward in the darkness even when you can't see. Holding the tension and allowing space between hoping to get well and the acceptance of what is happening.

It faith and hope in a positive head space. It is allowing an observation, reflecting what serves you best. Just because someone carriers it well, doesn't mean it isn't heavy.

Holding space for a devotion to the task of recovery, while being willing to live with the permanence of a wound. By finding acceptance of the wound and yet befriending it with an earnest tenacity to meet it where it lives without pushing our agenda upon it.

But here’s the paradox: You must accept what is happening while also keeping the heart pulsing towards your becoming, however slow and whispering it may be. It's the growth and becoming that set you forwards to live with the wound without allowing it an option of defining you.

It's a path of finding an understanding of your wounds without the anger or pain. It's an observation of finding it what it is. It will not change...only you can change this. The healing will come and you will be done. Love and light.