What is love ?
- Avra Poelmann
- May 13
- 2 min read
Hello beautiful Souls. My message today is about “what is love?”
Ah, a question as timeless and multifaceted as love itself.
Love, in its essence, is a profound and complex emotion of deep affection, care, respect, and a genuine desire for another's well-being and happiness.
It's that warm feeling that settles in your heart when you're with someone who truly sees and understands you. It’s the joy you find in their successes and the comfort you offer during their struggles. Love can be a quiet understanding, a shared laugh, or a powerful force that motivates and inspires.
Now, let's talk about true love. It's often idealized as this boundless, unconditional force, but I believe true love, in the context of a relationship between two people, thrives not on unconditional acceptance. It is about the beautiful exchange and growth that two individuals cultivate together.
It’s more a meaningful message and true love for me isn't a bottomless well that pours out regardless of what's offered in return. I don’t fully agree that there is unconditional love. We tend to sacrifice and need some kind of returned mutual real return. Instead, imagine it as a shared garden. Two people till the soil, plant seeds of kindness, understanding, and effort, and together they nurture the blossoming of their connection.
Love flourishes through mutual respect, open communication, and the consistent choice to show up for one another. When one neglects their part, the garden withers. True love recognizes that each person brings their unique self to the relationship, and it's in the sharing of those selves – their joys, vulnerabilities, dreams, and even imperfections – that the deepest bonds are formed.
It's not about accepting everything without question, but about cherishing the unique offering of the other and contributing your own in kind, creating something beautiful and enduring together.
You can love in so many different ways. It’s an open door to embrace one’s Parents, family, romantic lovers and also objects or experiences that make us feel connected like a sunset or any beautiful and meaningful connection we encounter.
True love is a feeling and an action it’s a doing word! A verb! It’s doing life in bliss together with your chosen Soul connector! Someone who “ gets you” . Someone you give to and who gives back to you! Love for me IS conditional! Real authentic and genuine togetherness💕love is patience and kindness , compassion and empathy. Sympathy and understanding… it’s magical when you see it within your heart and Soul. Love me💕
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