Who are your real friends?

Hello beautiful Souls. My message today is about deciding, who we want as our friends.

We certainly don't need to waste our time or energy on people who only want us around when it suits them.

Unworthy people are not a priority in our life. If they are not true and honest it's time to revisit this relationship.

When we realise that someone is expecting rather than accepting what we do then, it maybe time to set boundaries or stop our association with them.

If someone wants to be part of our life then they will make every effort to do so. They need to offer us their time. When someone gives us support and is always there for us then they are real friends.

When it's unconditional and there is no need to please only, then we do not require accolades for our good deeds. We require acknowledgement, respect and appreciation. It should come naturally.

When we do things for others we do not need to expect anything in return. When we have expectations we will more often be very disappointed.

We cannot expect others to behave like we do. We all differ and sometimes even when we offer kindess it is not always returned. If we don't like something help ourself by taking away it's power...that power is... "our attention."

If others are treating us disrespectfully it's time to stop tolerating their bad behaviour. Nothing will change unless we ourselves change. We cannot change others, only our own behaviour. This may even include a family member. You deserve to be respected if you offer it in return.

Real and authentic friendship means allowing and also holding space for someone with non-judgement, honesty and never feeling that it difficult to communicate.

Take on only what serves you best.

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